I am reading The Life and Diary of David Brainerd (1749). This is basically a large portion of Brainerd’s journal edited and published by Jonathan Edwards. Brainerd was a missionary the the Native Americans in New York from 1742-1747. His journals reveal a single-minded life and passionate pursuit of God and His glory. Brainerd’s Life has been influential on countless missionaries after him. Guys like William Carey and Henry Martyn and Jim Elliot all read Brainerd’s life and considered a major formative influence on them. I being challenged in many ways as I read of Brainerd’s pursuit of God, spiritual struggles, and passion to see the gospel spread.
One of the instructive elements of Brainerd’s life is how much time he spent in prayer with other Christians. During his mission to the Native Americans he battled loneliness and the isolation so often felt by frontier missionaries. But in the years leading up to his mission he spent a great deal of time praying with friends. Here are a few examples:
Sept. 10, 1742: “In the afternoon, prayed with a dear friend privately, and had the presence of GOd with us; our souls united together to reach after a blessed immorality.”
Dec. 11, 1742: “I rode to Bethlehem, came to Mr. Bellamy’s lodgings, and spent the evening with him in sweent conversation and prayer.
Dec. 23, 1742: “I rode to New-Haven, and there enjoyed some sweetness in prayer and conversation, with some dear christian friends. My mind was sweetly serious and composed.”
Dec. 26, 1742: “In the evening, rode from New-Haven to Branford, after I had kneeled and prayed with a number of dear Christian friends in a very retired place in the woods.”
Feb. 17, 1743: “In the evening, spent some time with a dear christian friend; and felt serious, as on the brink of eternity. My soul enjoyed sweetness in lively apprehensions of standing before the glorious God: prayed with my dear friend with sweetness, and discoursed with the utmost solemnity. And truly it was a little emblem of heaven itself.”
March 19, 1743: “In the afternoon, rode to Newark, and had some sweetness in conversation with Mr. Burr, and in praying together. O blessed be God for ever and ever, for any enlivening and quickening seasons.
Some observations:
1. Brainerd also spent a lot of time in secret prayer. He records great struggles of soul and striving to stay focused in secret prayer. However, during his prayer with friends he nearly always records a powerful and vibrant time of prayer. Secret prayer is necessary and important and often powerful. Most of our prayer will be done by ourselves with God. But it is good to remember that praying out loud with others is often a means of God ministering to our souls and focusing our minds in a very special and powerful way. Brainerd’s secret prayer was often more lively and focused after spending time together with friends in prayer.
2. It is probable that the many hours of prayer with friends before his solitary mission to the Indians helped give him the strength he needed once he was on his own. It also probably knit the hearts of his friends together with his own, so that they were often compelled to pray for him as they thought of his mission work.
3. Brainerd went as a missionary, sometimes with a translator, but often with no friend but his horse. He was working among tribes where there were no Christians. He often struggled and was pushed to despair and horrible loneliness and despondency. I wonder how much more fruitful his work would have been if he would have had a like-minded partner; someone to pray with and pour out his heart to and be encouraged by.
Some applications:
1. We should pray together. Every single time Brainerd records staying with someone or seeing friends they had “spiritual conversations” and prayed together. How much of our spiritual weakness stems from our silence about God, and toward God, when together? If you have Christian friends and you get together, set aside some time and pray. Be intentional about it. I think if we are we will see great growth in godliness and nearness to Christ.
2. If you don’t have friends that you feel like would want to pray with you, find new friends. Biblical community is not something that we fall into. We need to seek it out intentionally.
3. I think we need to ask others to pray for us and with us if we hope to grow much in sanctification, or be used of God to spread the gospel and glorify His name. Let us pray for each other.
4. Don’t fly solo like Brainerd did the last few years of his life. If you are in a rough work enviornment or feel alone or have a difficult ministry, you need friends to come alongside you. Find ways to reach out to other Christians and initiate prayer with each other for the advance of Christ’s kingdom in your heart and in the earth. The American way is very individualistic, but it isn’t the biblical way and it doesn’t work.
(By the way, I am planning to post 3 more times in my series on Edwards’s Missional Eschatology. It has just been a bit busy the past week and I haven’t had a chance. So for the 2 who are reading that series, be patient)